Most Important Gestures of Love

Large, grand gestures are wonderful when you can make them happen. But real, long-lasting, day-to-day love is made up of countless little things. They are the brick and mortar of what two people build together. The grand gestures are like chandeliers, or swimming pools, or expensive silverware and china. They bring elegance and refinement and their own kind of beauty, a beauty that's hard to miss, but how often will you bring out the fine china, or keep the chandelier lit? And how often will you eat off your regular, daily plates and use the table lamp to give you the light you need.

So, the most important gesture in love are the small ones and lemme tell you they are the backbone of a relationship. I believe everyone should understand that there are few small things that can make your partner really haapy and love between the two of you can blossom further. When someone loves you, the way she says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth. When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared she won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only does she still love you, she loves you even more

For me there are 5 such gestures that defines true love..

Those eyes......just that look from your partner which says ' I really really like you. '
That holding of hands........which says ' I understand and trust you completely. '
That slight kiss on the forehead which says ' I respect you. '
That innocent hug.....which says ' I will always be there for you and give you all the happiness in the world. '
And finally those three words....." I Love You ".....which will become your life.

You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget..............

How To Lose A Guy In 6 Days ??

Ever thought of it? i guess, not....
So here is the answer........gals, just give it a shot :)
Plan a day out with him....may be go for a sporting event. When the match gets to it's most interesting phase.....sweetly ask him..'Honey, I am feeling lill thirsty can you get a drink for me?'. Poor guy, he doesn't have an option.....after all she is his girlfriend. He will swear some curses and get back with a Coke......what next?
'Hey sweetie! I asked for a diet coke n look what have you got', Half of his attention is on the match....'Jesus, this match is in the most exciting phase and this girl wants a diet coke' but he goes and by the time he gets back.....it's over boy
Mission I accomplished.

Scene 2...this guy is in the office discussing some important facts with his colleague and you land up. He will be shocked and there you go again....'Dear, are you not happy to see me?'
Boy: of course not. I am happy.
He gives a helpless look to his friends around.
You:but you don't look happy at all. Please tell me the truth
Boy: (soliloquy) If she knows then why has she come here.
You hug him and he will be embarrassed (As far as i know boys don't like public display of affection).
What next? Next day, go for some shopping and get those flowery, loud colored shirt for him. 'Look, wht have i got for you, this will look good on you'.
Boy: Yeah, m sure...
You: hey then why don't you try it for me.
Boy: Pls not now, it's really gud but i can't try it now.
You: I know you don't love me any more. Why don't you tell me if tht's the case.
And you have succeeded in Mission III

Boys generally prefer one boys night out in a week. Well this is the most appropriate time to kick off your next move.
Its 8’O clock at night.
Ding dong……Ding dong…….
As expected, your boy friend opens the door.
You: Surprise! Surprise! Look who has come to meet you.
Boy: Hey why are you here?
Tries to regather himself and be polite at the same time.
Boy: I mean to say I wasn’t expecting you at this hour
You: Ohh…..Honey I just dropped in to check if you are having a nice time
Boy: (soliloquy) For God’s sake, at least give me one day when I can be alone
You: Won’t you call me inside?
And without even waiting for an invitation, just barge in.
You: Hi everyone, having fun guys??
The expression would sum up their feelings. And I am sure you would love it.
You will realize that your hard work has paid off. Try to bore all his friends with your girlish talks and some PJs . This will serve as the icing on the cake.

Job Well done, after effects of which you will experience later.

Coming on to the 5th day.
Your so called boy friend has some get together organized in his office and to your good luck, he has lots of female colleagues to accompany him. Here is your big chance…….
Call him every hour to find out where he is and what he is up to. Tring…tring Triiiingggg….and more Trinngg Triing……
Poor boy does not pick up the phone unaware of what is going to be its outcome.
He comes back at night and you are already at his place.
You: Why were you not taking my calls?
Boy: Dear, I was busy.
You: And may I know what was keeping you busy, those girls who were with you all the time?? I know what are you upto. Don't think that I m a fool.
Boy: Hey come on now u r making a fuss for no reason at all.
You: I knew it.....I m not important for you. You just don't have time for me. I have become a fuss for u.....
And blah blah.....
Smile girl, you are just one step away from success :)

After few SORRY stuff, things will regain normalcy, atleast for the time being.

Now moving on to the sixth and final day.
Just call him and tell that you need to talk to him so he should better stay at home.....

You: I need to talk to you about something important
Boy: Yes honey tell me, just make it a lill fast, I need to reach office early.
You: When will you marry me?

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Boy: What??? What are you saying?
You: I have a simple question and i need an answer right NOW.
As boys are not prepared for this, generally they don't hve an answer to this.

Boy: I need some time. It's a big responsibility and we should think over it..
And just start all over again.....
You: I know u don't luv me anymore. I should have guessed that you don't have any intention of marrying me. You have changed so much.
After all this discussion.....

Boy: Ok. If you think this way and you feel i don't love you, lets get over this and break off.

yipeee.....finally you have done this. Congratulations !!
You have Lost that guy in 6 days. Mission Accomplished.
To all the girls, please do not try all this stuff on your boy friends. It's just an observation that tend to happen in a relationship.

On a more serious note, i have realized that few things are very important for a successful relationship.
Girls...just try to be yourself always. Don't try to pretend in front of the man with whom you want to spend all your life, because love is also about being yourself and loved for being YOU, only you. Let him live his life. Respect his choices and most importantly TRUST him.

These relationships are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But held too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

All the above said things also applies to you boys out there. Some other day i will write a blog on 'How to Lose a girl in 5 days' .
Till then try to hold on to your girl friends ;))

Moment in Time

Here is a poem which has touched me a lot.
This poem emphasizes the important of special moments and to appreciate them no matter how long or short they are.


Moment in Time
by Cynthia Kepp

We talked,
We walked,
for a Moment in Time.

You passed through my life that day and left your mark.
You may never pass my way again,
Or you may stay for a lifetime.

No matter what,
I want to say thank you for the impression you made
that will stay with me for eternity.

I enjoyed the walk,
I enjoyed the talk.
I am blessed for that moment in time.

The first time I saw you I knew you would affect my life,
though your role I did not know.
I asked myself, "Why is he alone?
Why does he sit so quiet, all alone?
Is he sad?
Is he glad to be alone?
Is he alone?
Is he lonely?
"There is so much I want to know.

I asked myself, "Why him?
When so many people pass through my life each day,
why him? "

What attracts me to you?
What makes me want to know more? I want to know.

Even if my questions are never answered,
There is one thing I want you to know.
I have been blessed by the effect you had on me in that
Moment in Time.